The Sound of Deeeeeeeeeeeeeee
by BrianRobinson
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Jun 28, 2011 | 1445 views |  0 comments | 8 8 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

Autism is what's known as a spectrum disorder, which means it covers a wide range of symptoms.  There are some common threads - sensory overload and social awkwardness, for example -  and some problems aren't as common - having to have strict routines to manage the day, or only being able to eat brown food - but if you've met one autistic person you've met one autistic person.  Each one has their own challenges, advantages and quirks.  They're kinda like cats.

(which reminds me - when my wife was pregnant, people asked how I'd handle a baby.  I told them I was well trained, having had cats all my life.  They don't listen, they're pushy, they will do what they want to do, you have to clean up after them, and when they want you to wake the heck up, you WILL wake the heck up)

As I said in the previous post, Xan is quite smart, and he can handle change pretty well.  He may not be happy about some switches, but he isn't locked into a second-by-second schedule.  He has some sensory issues, especially with echoes, and when really excited will do what is called stimming - flap his hands, jump, and twirl in circles, which can lead to overexictement and a possible meltdown.  Too much feeling, too little outlet.

One issue he does have is a lack of verbal skills.  He can talk, but doesn't very much, and his communication is limited to hard concepts, like 'I want' or 'can-I-please-have', all in one quick sound.  He has a lot of code words or shortcuts - for a while if he was upset he'd say ABC ABC ABC over and over, or saying 3 when he wants a CD to repeat a song (our car CD player has the number 3 on the repeat key and he put it together that way) and other ones that we're so used to they're etched into everyday life and not noticeable anymore.

Soft concepts are those based on emotion, the harder things to explain, and that's where he has trouble.  He can't say if he's mad or sad.  We pick up on that when he starts yelling or crying, when it's obvious and past the point we could have helped.  But when he's happy, he lets out this gleeful, joyous 'Deeeeeee'; one high long drawn out sound of sheer emotion.  He does it when we pick up mommy from work, when we're driving in the car and his favorite song is blasting and he's sticking his hand out the window, when I'm tickling him in between the laughs.  It's a wonderful sound to hear.

Here's hoping you all have a Deeeeeeeeee moment today.

Pushing
by BrianRobinson
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Jun 27, 2011 | 459 views |  0 comments | 7 7 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

There's an old Bill Cosby routine where he describes the typical clueless husband and father making a mess of assigned chores.  The avalanche of errors ends with him being sent back to bed - which is where he wanted to be in the first place.  It ends with the statement, "You see, we are dumb...and we are not so dumb."  Good comedy concert - Bill Cosby Himself, if you want to check it out.

That remind me of my son.  I would be far from calling him dumb; far from it.  Every therapist and teacher he's seen has said he is more than likely brilliant, a genius, which no doubt he gets from his mother.  He's been on the honor roll every quarter at school, ending with a 98 average this year.  He got the highest score in the class on standardized tests back when he first started school.  All of this while suffering from sensory overload.

(A quick note on autism - one of the more common characteristics is being unable to shut out as much of the world as you and I can.  For example, you and I can focus on a conversation we're having in a noisy room, if with some difficulty.  And we're able to ignore the flickers of flourescent lights, for another example.  But many autistic kids have all this sensory input hitting them at once all the time.  Imagine taking an IQ test in a room with a strobe lights, ear-bleedlingly loud music playing, and the chair and desk shifting from side to side randomly.  Now imagine scoring high on the IQ test.  Meet my son.)

BUT...

There are times when I know, and his teachers know, that he CAN do something but doesn't WANT to, and acts like he can't.  It used to be a huge problem, to where his teachers would ask me to get him to do things as homework that he had learned at eighteen months but decided he didn't want to do.  In addition to being smart, he can be very cunning.  Dumb...but not so dumb.

So I push him.  I don't let him slide.  And, well, we have a battle of the wills.  If he inherited my wife's brains, he also inherited my stubbornness.  The battles can be epic.

And yes, I have screwed up royally in the past.  Taken resistance as "I won't" when it was "I can't" or, one time, "I'm really sick and about to throw up." If the boy ever does get to talking, he will make some therapist very rich one day.  Part of the joys of parenthood in general and autism in particular.

But all I can do is believe in him and make him show what he can do.  Because he can do so much, and I want people to see how smart he is.  Autistic...but not so dumb.

 

 

 

 

 

Life Unscripted
by BrianRobinson
 Kaleidoscopic
Jun 24, 2011 | 453 views |  0 comments | 7 7 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

Hello everyone - welcome to this little downhome corner of the internet.  My name is Brian Robinson, and I'd like to thank the Anniston Star for letting me have my own space here on their website.

I'm planning for this blog to have a focus on autism.  We have an autistic son, and in dealing with that have learned many things we'd like to share, both in terms of general information and experiences to specific groups in town who can assist people who need help.  It's hard to go through, but maybe we can start other people dealing with this a little farther down the path than we had to start.  In that spirit, my wife has started a local autism support group - it's at CalhounCountyAutismInfo.com.  It's a good place to start if you'd like, or need, more information.

Of course, I can't post about autism 24/7 - I'd go more crazy than my friends and the general public already think I am, so we'll range far afield.  If anyone has any questions or the like, e-mail me at BHRobin@aol.com and I'll see if I can help.

Hope you like the blog.

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Mixing up cocktails for wine lovers
Jun 18, 2013 | 132 views |  0 comments | 6 6 recommendations | email to a friend | print

America is a wine-consuming nation. We drink more wine by volume than any other country. Statistics prove that Americans now get this whole wine culture thing.

Most of us know our merlots from our chardonnays, feel relatively comfortable ordering from a wine list and make selections with ease from our favorite wine shops. 

We also know not to pour our wine over ice or order wine and coke. At least we held these truths to be self evident until the appearance of the mixologist on the bar scene.

Sometimes the words “mixologist” and “bartender” are used synonymously. However, it is generally accepted that a bartender tends bar — pulling drafts of beer and mixing traditional drinks. A mixologist, on the other hand, is more creative, inventing drinks like apple pie and strawberry shortcake martinis.

Mixologists have also been known to revamp old classic recipes by adding nontraditional ingredients. They would likely never be caught putting something as mundane as a olive in one of their martinis.

Mixologists are now turning their attention to wine cocktails. Aided especially by the popularity of ubiquitous sweet moscato wines, they are using unusual ingredients to concoct an array of wine-laced drinks. 

As summer evenings turn warmer, try shaking up one of the following concoctions to cool down:  

Note: Sutterhome, Barefoot and Ecco Domani wines can be found in most grocery outlets but when making these cocktails, if the varietal is correct almost any brand will do.

Kalimotxo (cal-ee-MO-cho)

This easy-to-make, sangria-esque drink originated in the Basque region where the borders of Spain and France meet in the western Pyrenees. Don’t say yuck before trying this. Directions: Mix equal parts cola and cheap red wine. Mix in a pitcher or glass, pour over ice and garnish with a slice of lime or lemon.  

You’re a Peach

From Sutter Home Winery, this recipe calls for Sutter Home Moscato, but any moscato will do.  Directions: Place a scoop of peach sorbet in a martini glass. Add 3 slices of canned peaches (I used three slices of fresh Chilton County peaches.) Slowly pour 5 ounces of moscato over sorbet. Serve immediately as a dessert, but if serving as a cocktail, allow peach sorbet to slightly melt before adding moscato to make a slushy cocktail.   

Lemon-Chill-O 

Also from Sutter Home. Directions: Place a scoop of lemon sorbet into a glass tumbler. Slowly pour 5 ounces of sparkling moscato over sorbet. Garnish with a sprig of mint. This is reminiscent of the lime sherbet and ginger ale punch once the staple of southern wedding libations long before we became a wine-consuming culture.

Dolce Domani 

Dolce (dole-chay) is Italian for sweet. This recipe from Ecco Domani is from its Winetail drink collection. Directions: Muddle/mash 1⁄2 lime with 2 1⁄2 teaspoons of sugar. Add 3 ounces of merlot and shake all ingredients vigorously in a cocktail shaker. Pour over ice and garnish with a wedge of lime.

Barefoot Walk on the Beach 

From Barefoot Wines. Directions: Combine 1⁄2 ounce of peach schnapps, 1 ounce pineapple juice and 1 ounce cranberry juice in a tall glass. Top with 3 ounces of Barefoot Bubbly Red Moscato. Add ice. Garnish with peach slices and pineapple chunks

Charonge Paradise 

From Charonge Wine, producer of California white wine with natural orange flavor, available at Tyson Fine Wines and Things in Golden Springs for $9.75. Directions: For this classic drink combine 1 1⁄2 ounces of Charonge, 2 ounces of pear nectar, 1 1⁄2 ounces vodka, a sprig of fresh rosemary and shake with ice in a martini shaker. Serve in a martini glass with a sprig of rosemary.  

Email Pat Kettles at pkettles@annistonstar.com
Visions of cranberries danced in my head
Jun 18, 2013 | 66 views |  0 comments | 7 7 recommendations | email to a friend | print
When asked what part of cooking I enjoy the most, I immediately reply “baking.” I have enjoyed baking since the first time I entered the Pillsbury Bake-Off in 1963. My Tropical Coffee Cake (later named Tropical Cake) won me a trip the the Bake-Off that year in Beverly Hills, Calif. Baking is a good avenue for creativity. I enjoy experimenting in the kitchen with new recipe ideas, some of which come to me in unusual ways. My latest idea came to me just as I was about to drop off to sleep one night. I was thinking about how much I like fresh apple cake and wondering how I could make it even better when cranberries came to mind. Of course, fresh cranberries were out of the question because they are only available during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. I opted to use dried cranberries but didn’t want to just stir in a few. Then I thought about the flavored flour I developed about 30 years ago and decided to see if I could make cranberry flour. The first time I used flavored flour I was trying to improve my fruitcake. It worked so well that I started making other blends. Since that first experiment, I have made chocolate flour, peanut butter and chocolate flour, almond flour, butterscotch flour and a few others that were not as popular. I combined some flour with the cranberries in the food processor and processed the mixture until the cranberries were almost as fine as the flour. What I like about using flavored flour in this cake is that rather than getting a bite of cranberries every now and then, you get a hint of cranberry flavor throughout the cake. As the cake baked, a wonderful aroma permeated the house. I could hardly wait to cut into it and check the texture and flavor blend of the cranberries and apples. I was not disappointed. It was moist and delicious. CRANBERRY APPLE CAKE
2 ½ cups all-purpose flour
1/2 cup dried cranberries
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 teaspoon baking soda
½ teaspoon salt
1 cup oil ⅓ cup softened butter
1 ¾ cup sugar
½ cup firmly packed light brown sugar
3 large eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
3 cups peeled and cubed Winesap or Rome apples Preheat oven to 350 F. Grease and lightly flour a Bundt or tube pan. Combine 1 cup of the flour with the cranberries in the food processor, fitted with the steel blade. Process until the cranberries are almost as fine as the flour. It’s OK if some small pieces of cranberries remain. Combine this mixture with the remaining flour, cinnamon, baking soda and salt. Stir to mix and set aside. In a large mixing bowl, combine oil, butter, sugar and brown sugar. Beat until well mixed. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Add vanilla extract and mix well. Gradually add the flour mixture and beat until blended. Stir in apples. Pour into prepared pan and bake for about 1 hour to 1 hour 10 minutes or until a toothpick comes out clean when inserted into center of cake. Cool in the pan for about 10 minutes and then turn out onto a cake plate. Note: I have found that wrapping the cake in aluminum foil while it is still warm will make it even more moist. Email Prudence Hilburn at prudencehilburn463@att.net
Alabama offering food safety training
by Staff reports
Jun 18, 2013 | 65 views |  0 comments | 5 5 recommendations | email to a friend | print
The Alabama Cooperative Extension System is offering food safety training to producers who sell at farmers markets. Officials say the goal is to prevent outbreaks of foodborne illness. Auburn University professor Jean Weese studies food safety. She said even one outbreak traced back to a farmers market can undermine years of effort that goes into building a customer base. She said her goal is to reach sellers at farmers markets in all of Alabama’s counties. The Opelika-Auburn News reports the team has already completed 34 training sessions in 32 counties.
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