Anti-gay bullying left out of school harassment law
by Tim Lockette
tlockette@annistonstar.com
Jul 29, 2010 | 4687 views | 18 18 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print
Under an anti-harassment policy passed by the Anniston Board of Education Wednesday, students are explicitly protected from bullying based on their race, gender, religion or disability.

Sexual orientation? Not so much.

With Wednesday’s unanimous vote, Anniston joined school systems across the state in passing an official policy for dealing with bullying and harassment. The move is required by the Student Harassment Prevention Act, passed by the Alabama Legislature in the wake of a wave of bullying-related suicides across the country.

Shortly after the law was passed, the state released a model anti-harassment policy that has since been adopted almost word-for-word in many school districts. The model policy explicitly bans harassment based on race, disability and religion, but is silent on anti-gay bullying.

That’s a big problem for anti-bullying advocates, who say that anti-gay slurs and violence make up a significant portion of the bullying most students –- gay or straight –- experience in school.

“When you leave the most common form of bullying out of your policy, that’s problematic,” said Carly Friedman, an assistant professor of psychology at Mississippi State University.

Friedman studies school bullying, and worked as a research consultant to the Alabama Safe Schools Coalition, an anti-bullying group that campaigned for a sexual orientation clause in the state policy.

Formerly a professor at Samford University, Friedman said her studies found that 49 percent of Alabama students hear anti-gay slurs multiple times per day, and 60 to 70 percent hear at least one anti-gay slur per day.

It’s not just a problem for gay students, Friedman said.

“What we’re talking about is bullying based on real or perceived sexual orientation,” Friedman said. “A significant number of students who identify as heterosexual experience anti-gay harassment.”

One sponsor of the bill, state Sen. Ted Little (D-Auburn), said gay issues were left out of the bill because “there was a feeling that the legislation had the potential of picking up some significant opposition.”

Little said he became a proponent of anti-bullying policies after taking part in a state task force on school violence a few years ago.

“One particular theme that came up consistently was the need to address bullying,” Little said. “What we’ve seen since then, across the country, are a number of incidents where bullying has actually led to the self-inflicted death of a child.”

Little acknowledged that anti-gay bullying was an element in some recent bullying-related suicides. But he said it was important to create a bill that would pass.

“We wanted to pass something that was worthwhile, knowing we could work on it in the future,” he said. “We would have been derelict if we continued to do nothing about bullying.”

Local school leaders say that despite the wording of the state model policy, no bullying of any sort will be tolerated in local schools.

“Our goal in passing this was to make sure our policy was in line with what was required by the state,” said Judy Stiefel, superintendent of Calhoun County Schools.

Like Anniston, Calhoun County passed the state’s model policy almost word-for-word. Stiefel said the policy simply adds to what is already in the county’s student code of conduct.

Calhoun County’s includes specific policies for dealing with sexual harassment and racial issues, but not anti-gay harassment. The code does explicitly ban students from engaging in anti-gay bullying, however.

Anniston superintendent Joan Frazier said she considered anti-gay bullying to fall under the category of sexual harassment –- something already covered in Anniston’s policies.

Frazier said the new policy could be valuable even in school systems that already have an anti-bullying program in place.

“It solidifies it, from a policy standpoint,” she said. “Instead of having several specific policies, we have one overarching policy to deal with bullying.”

Frazier said that administrators want firm footing when they discipline a child for misbehavior, and the state model policy gives them a consistent framework to work from.

The Star attempted to contact superintendents in Jacksonville, Oxford and Piedmont, but calls were not returned.

The law doesn’t prevent school districts from adding policies on anti-gay bullying to the state’s model policy. At press time, it was unclear whether any district had written policies of that sort.

Friedman, the psychologist, continues to hope that they will.

“I hope people will come to understand that this is a very real problem,” she said.

Contact Assistant Metro Editor Tim Lockette at 256-235-3560.

comments (18)
« charnigo@jsu.edu wrote on Thursday, Aug 05 at 12:58 PM »
Re: Big dummys who allowed their emotions to overide their intellect.

That about sums up this whole discussion...but not in the way you intended.

« jimjohnson@mail.com wrote on Wednesday, Aug 04 at 10:15 AM »
Very often we have allowed our political correctness to overide our common sense. That will be how history views our generation. Big dummys who allowed their emotions to overide their intellect. Divided we fall, quit dividing us into special groups.
« charnigo@jsu.edu wrote on Wednesday, Aug 04 at 09:58 AM »
If a school harassment law is going to list specific targets, such as race, then hatred towards gay and lesbian students, needs to be added as well. Either list NO targeted people and consider it ALL bullying or list all targets of bullying, particularly anti-gay, which can, not only be particularly cruel but very dangerous for those students.

Also, by including other targets, but leaving them out, it sends a message from our leaders that seems to say it is "okay" to bully someone who is gay because they somehow deserve it. Argue all you want, but that's the message it sends. And this isn't the only harrassment policy in this state to specifically include protection for other people but to leave out protection for gay people.
« rt4equity@charter.net wrote on Tuesday, Aug 03 at 02:31 PM »
As a grandmother, churchgoer, and retired educator, I’m greatly concerned about how frightening, depressing, an dangerous our communities and schools can be for young people who discover that they are different and also learn that their faith communities and the Bible teach that they are an abomination. That kind of message is irresponsible and dangerous creating a group of very vulnerable, underserved students.

Too often, students who don’t fit the feminine or masculine stereotype, even if they are not gay, are easy targets for bullies. We have an opportunity to create safe and respectful communities where it is ok for boys to be “bookish” and love ballet and for girls to enjoy working on cars and declare fashion boring.

All students suffer when we reinforce narrow limitations on gender identity or expression. Not only do targeted youths suffer, but bystanders are fearful while learning to stifle interests that are considered outside the gender norm. Additionally, an alarming number of youthful bullies are incarcerated by their early twenties.

Our schools need anti-bullying policies that directly confront issues of bullying and intolerance of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and gender non-conforming students and educators need training to respond to anti-gay bullying. Kids need to know that good character and their intrinsic value is not defined by orientation or gender expression….right, Dr. King?

Thanks for this important article that opens a conversation about how to better serve all of our kids and keep them safe.

« bob3620300@yahoo.com wrote on Sunday, Aug 01 at 04:19 PM »
kerry has it right, bullying is bullying. It doesn't matter what is used to justify the action, the act itself is what needs to be punished. The reason the homosexual community wants to add another layer of protection for their peers is to punish GOD for naming them and their actions abominations.

« jimjohnson@mail.com wrote on Saturday, Jul 31 at 02:00 PM »
No, I am against any bully for any reason. My Dad taught me how to handle a bully before I was ever exposed to one. I'm sure its the same lesson many others from around here, back in that day was taught. First available. When you cant walk away, pick up the first available object and start swinging. Win, loose or draw, that bully will never again pick on you. My dad also taught me it was wrong for boys to "like " boys or girls to "like" girls. He told me it was in the bible and I believed him. Still do.
« johnson20062@yahoo.com wrote on Saturday, Jul 31 at 08:38 AM »
jimjohnson,so if someone wants to bully a person who is black or fat or rich and white and the person just happens to be gay or act gay, the bully can bully them and say "its because their gay" instead of the real reason because they are black or fat or rich and white and get away with it as far as your opinion is concerned?you better hope that some bully doesnt mistake you for being gay!
« jimjohnson@mail.com wrote on Friday, Jul 30 at 07:27 AM »
Homosexuals, bisexuals are sexually perverted humans and there are no laws that will protect them from a miserable existance here on Gods green earth. Biology is the best witness to the fact that a man in another mans backside is not only gross, its unhealthy and downright filthy.

« Hootchapappy@cableone.net wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 04:02 PM »
Well it's no big secret that when someone is a bullie, they are already questioning their own preference, or lack of. We have bullies everywhere, whether they be school kids or even professionals such as lawyers, and even some police officers that like the idea THEY ARE THE LAW. hehe, what a bunch of punks that really need their own butts kicked IN PUBLIC. Next time someone is being bullied? I suggest that you take out one of their knee-caps. That will give them something to think about for the rest of their lives. It worked for me, and the person stopped being a bullie.
« ahs_vampire@live.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 02:52 PM »
OK look homosexual and bisexual students as well as heterosexual students need just as much protection from bullying as anyone else. I've been in those kids position just because I was bisexual some people didn't like me and some did bully me. It became hard and I was also depressed during that time. So in turn I would hate for preteens and teens to go through what I went through. Life is hard enough to deal with so why should a law discriminate against gays, lesbians, or bisexuals? That is not what this country was built on. If all men which includes women were created equal then shouldn't all the laws be equal for every man, woman, and child no matter what their sexual orientation? I think it should so I disagree that this law is correct. It does need to be amended as soon as possible to include everything that bullying is. Bullying covers a range of things which includes sexual orientation. The Law that has been passed is flawed severely flawed.
« cutit2fit@hotmail.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 12:41 PM »
brodiegirl_00@hotmail.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 10:50 AM »

@cutit2fit, if you read the article thoroughly, with a more open mind, you'd clearly see they aren't giving special ANYTHING to anti-gay bullying, they are trying to make it EQUAL. Very different...doesn't everyone deserve to be treated equally?

So you are saying if a person is gay and is being bullied in school they are not protected by law because they are gay? That they dont have "equall" protection? That the one(s) bulling them are exempt from disipline?,,,, Equall is the one(s) doing the bulling is punished for the act of bulling not because of the affiliation / orientation / color / religion etc. of the victim

. If you had read with a more open mind about what I wrote you'd known I was advocating equall protection for all ! I said so. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Anti-gay bullying left out of school harassment law

by Tim Lockette

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Again, this papers article , as well as you, is trying to make people think gays dont have the same rights of protection as anyone else simply because it doesnt spell out "sexual orientation".Make it about human beings not a certain group who thinks they need extra laws that put them above the rest of society.
« honestgovernment76@yahoo.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 11:32 AM »
brodiegirl, Congratulations you have managed to avoid the government indoctrination attempts of the public school system.

From a Constitution standpoint you are right on target that we all should be treated equally and all the laws on the book should be enforced and applied equally to everyone with no special cases. Justice is supposed to be blind.

From a Biblical standpoint just look at how much better off we would be if we treated everyone equally and with the love of Christ. Now that doesn't mean we are going to let bullies and the gov't keep kicking us in the shin. We just need to keep in mind the standard Christ has set and strive to achieve it the best we can.

Be carefull the gov't wants to keep us fighting among ourselves and pitting one special interest group against another. That's their way of turning us back to slaves. A united electorate cannot be defeated. A divided electorate already is.
« kerry@propilots.net wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 11:22 AM »
Why should homosexuals be singled out for special treatment? What's special about them? Just stop all bullying for whatever reason and for all children. Stop with this liberal nonsense that homosexuals should be treated like they are special people. They are sex perverts, plain and simple.
« brodiegirl_00@hotmail.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 10:52 AM »
And to add...remember one thing. Anti-gay comments,slurs,and bullying aren't ALWAYS against gay people. Many straight children are bullied by being called "fags" or worse, b/c of maybe a shirt they wore that day, a haircut, or JUST b/c someone wants to be an @ss. All children are equal, and should be treated as such. This law helps the entire student body.
« brodiegirl_00@hotmail.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 10:50 AM »
@cutit2fit, if you read the article thoroughly, with a more open mind, you'd clearly see they aren't giving special ANYTHING to anti-gay bullying, they are trying to make it EQUAL. Very different...doesn't everyone deserve to be treated equally?
« beccatalker_98@yahoo.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 10:02 AM »
CutIt2Fit, I don't think the paper is advocating special rights for anyone. You're right, bullying is bad, period. All bullying, including using negative slurs about homosexuals. Regardless of whether one disagrees with the lifestyle, that does not give anyone to smear the reputation or safety of another individual.

Look at it this way, how many children are harassed for their attraction to the opposite sex? I'd wager none. I've never heard of a group of kids gathering around a boy and girl who were holding hands, and throwing things at them, calling them "straighties."

However, it's very common for the child who is perceived as slightly different from his or her peers to be labeled any number of things, including gay slurs, regardless of whether the slurs are true or only a perception.

Several of the suicides caused by bullying in past years were very young children who were labeled with these slurs and just couldn't handle that kind of constant humiliation from classmates.

Shouldn't we do what we can to stop such abusive behaviors?
« cutit2fit@hotmail.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 09:40 AM »
Bulling period is bad. Why does this paper want to give special rights because of sexual preference? Why not whats fair for one is fair for all?
« Imnotbflat@yahoo.com wrote on Thursday, Jul 29 at 07:49 AM »
Bullying in school has always been a problem..Teachers looking the other way and ignoring their duties has alwaays been a problem too...Not all but a goodly number..If teachers are in charge.. they need to be held accountable if bullying exsist..Maybe the Board needs to rethink their ploicies as to who gets punished...